Monday, November 8, 2010

Discussion Board

Post a definition of a logical fallacy. Then, give an example of a specific logical fallacy.

Healthy Arguing

To my knowledge, every human being has been involved in an argument at one time or another. Arguments are part of relationships. They can help bring about a healthy progression towards a constructive decision. They can also lead to a destructive form of unacceptable behavior. Whether you argue with your spouse, parents, children, boss, co-workers or friends, it is important to argue effectively and not fall into any bad behavior traps. Learning to control emotions and words are very important in constructive arguing.

A good arguer is one that respects another persons beliefs, while arguing for their own. They are also able to argue constructively and without raising their voice and exposing their emotions. Some people feel that showing emotion is healthy and adds impact to their reason for arguing. Knowing how far to go is very important for the critical arguer.

The trap, that most individuals fall into, is letting their emotions get carried away. These emotions can lead to false accusations and actions that they will regret later. Destructive fights can lead to unproductive relationships and poor major decisions. They can be hurtful and lead to defensiveness, as well as resentment. It can hurt both parties involved.

Many times, it is good to get things out, before they start building up on the inside. A healthy relationship has room for social confrontation and constructive criticism. This type of arguing can lead to constructive agreements and can eventually strengthen relationships. Learning to work out inner conflicts is very important in successful relationships.


In personal relationships, problems are worked out, partners get past their defensiveness, old wounds heal, individuals get over their insecurities, and individuals begin to work as a couple.

Where do you fall in, when it comes to successful and constructive arguing? To find out if you are an effective arguer, you can take the Discovery Health test for arguing.

(This is not my writing. I copied excerpts from an article at http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1707093/is_arguing_a_healthy_way_of_expression_pg2.html?cat=41. You can read the article in its entirety at the preceding link.)

Tuesday, November 2, 2010

Frederick Douglass-My Bondage and My Freedom

Frederick Douglass is a pioneer for civil rights. He believed “knowledge is the pathway from slavery to freedom,” and this belief compelled Douglass to learn to read and write. Considering this thought, if ever we choose to reject opportunities to contemplate and learn new ideas and gain new knowledge, then do we fall victim to a sort of self inflicted enslavement? Doesn't Douglass point to the overwhelming importance of learning?

Furthermore, although not all learning and education takes place within the walls of the school house, it is a place centered on learning. My charge to you is to not waste opportunities you have to learn, especially at school. You are afforded a free education, unlike Douglass, who had to secretly educate himself amidst fear of punishment. Challenge yourself everyday to gain new knowledge or reinforce or rethink knowledge you already possess.

Comment on my thoughts. In your comments, reveal why you think education and gaining knowledge is important to you.